Stranger….20.01.2010-11.00pm

In this busy city, everyday we are facing many problems and not all the problems we can solve it correctly. Maybe because we are human being, so we would never run from mistake but we would learn from it every time we failed to complete in the correct way. Although we are not afraid of trying, but somehow we are tired to face it when it comes too soon for us. The true conclusion to say it was we are not ‘The Power One’-我们不是神.Last week I had attending my friend’s grandma funeral in the hospital, and his family were filling with tears in their eyes. The situation makes me flashing back the memories of my grandpa who had past away 2 years. But in that moment, I haven’t dropped my tears in front of my family, not even a piece. Maybe this is what we call the end of life for someone and I really understand it. The pasted let it be and the important things was to care the one who are still living. No matter how rich or poor we are, how pretty or ugly we are, we will never escape from death. In the journey of life, death was the last moment in this world we will face at the end. But when the death comes to you, do you really can accept the truth? Today I have seen a girl with a very down moment and had posted something that makes me cannot be silent for it. It was a problem from a very best friend of her that the best one was facing an ill moment. But the most important thing was her friend does not care anymore for the illness situation. The heartbreak girl really upset with him and most of the time praying for him. No others can help if he doesn’t help himself for first. The life is yours, no matter how sick was you, at least you have try your very best even though thing doesn’t seem good. Be his friend, the girl can only give him a very best advice and share the best moment with him. For the girl, I think ‘you should not take this burden by yourself. Find someone who you can trust and share example his family or other friends of him. Don’t make the ‘Best friend’ word to be your shadow. To make people around you happy, first you should make yourself happy. Try your best to help but don’t over your limit because you got your own life journey too.’ In this midnight, I just can pray for her and hope she wills success in every way. Also hope her friend will recover soon. Good friends don’t mean you know each other for a long time. Maybe sometime stranger will become a good friend too…. (Miss my grandpa…..12.40a.m)

Silent….12.01.2010-11.25pm

Ages were getting older and more problems coming up and we have to face it recently. But at some moment, we will choose to not facing it and keep our mind relax at all. Because of the problem that we are facing can’t be solve after continued trying we will keep it at the corner of our mind and in this case I will call it the ‘Silent Moment’ (沉默时刻). In this time, we try to not bothering what happen around us and don’t really care about our problem. It was very bored to solve a problem that we have already tried 2 or 3 times and the answer was also zero. So we are hoping to cool down in this silent moment after a long way to get right for our problem. But how many days, minutes or seconds can you be in this way? The conclusion is you still have to get back to your job and solve this problem at last. Of course, 100 of peoples, 100 of different minded. That are special, ‘The One’ had created us in a different look that makes nobody will be the same in this world. So the most important way was our conversation with others. You speak gently, speak well to people, and that makes people easily accept. So what ever problem you got, when come to a negotiate, you should speak good but don’t forget with point. I have been messaging a friend today that she was with her problem that she need keep herself in the silent moment. Hope she get what I’m trying to tell her in my message and hope she will find a good way to make a warm conversation with her partner… (Getting tired because of futsal just now. Need a good break later....12.25am)

Positive….10.01.2010-10.00pm

Everyday we are facing many kind of problem. Some are easy solving and others maybe we can put it in a hard column. Now a day, many of us run from the problem they are facing because afraid of the answer or something like that. But do this way is the correct way for them? To stabilize this kind of pressure, most of us will use alcohol, smoking or maybe eating. Because of this way, everybody will try to forget this problem and stay cool in clubbing and maybe we can say enjoying and forgetting for a while. But after tomorrow, do the problems will be disappearing itself? We just have to face it again in the other day and the problem still inside our mind for sure. So at last we need to face it and solve it. Last night, I have seen a friend wall in FB saying that she can’t sleep well and this last for a few days. I know that if you can’t sleep properly, your mind will be hiding many problems inside. So I tried to help her with my, I think a good advise for her. She should have to solve the problem or leaving the reason for not getting to sleep everyday. She told me actually she know what to do but she was afraid to solve. I don’t ask for the reason why because I respected for her personal rights. I just hope she can solve her problem quick before it’s too late. Nothing is impossible, 没有什么是不可能, when you think that is an ending point for you, actually is a new starting point again. 当你认为是一个结束点，其实是一个新的起点. Think positive sometime and the problem will be solving in a positive way. We are human, will not run from problems, the older you are the more are coming. So why and what do we afraid of. Is a part of our life time. If you think you can, you can…. (Going to rest my mind, I’m also with my problem. Anyway hope you will success with your solution..10.45pm)

Feeling….07.01.2010-11.45pm

Story continues in this new blog of 2010…

Maybe everyone hasn’t seen my old blog before but never mind, this is a new one and I hope you will enjoy with it and hope you will interest to drop or share your comment and feeling with me.

Here is midnight in front of the cold computer, seeing my FB wall and chatting with some friends in MSN. Like always, feeling boring sitting down here and seeing what people write on the wall in FB, some are funny and some are touching. Just a few hours late in the afternoon, I just found a girl that posted a very sad message on her wall. It makes me feel uncomfortable and have sent her a private message to comfort her and giving my best advise to her. I hope the message will help her, I really hope so.

Love really makes people selfish. Especially when two of them are really in love with each other. But is just the beginning of Their love story, after 2 or 3 years, or maybe 1 year, every thing will change little by little. Then problem will come out even more after a long time between Them. You can properly understand why so many people easily fall in love with someone and easily break up. Although that, I’m still respecting those who can really sacrifice in love without regret. But how many of them can really sacrifice without regret? Some how, love be can’t count on how many, how long or how far. No matter how many years you have break up with your partner, the memories still living in your mind and that won’t easily to be format like what we always do to our computer mostly. We can just look forward our future and hoping someone is waiting for us in the future. Don’t think that you are alone enough because your family and friends are always being there for you. (I’m going to take my bath now, will share more later or sooner..12.55am)